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Activity - Preparing The Labor Coach/Partner For Labor

By Rachel Lacourciere, edHelperBaby

  Preparing The Labor Coach/Partner For Labor
           The labor coach/partner is any person chosen by the woman to assist her before, during, and for a period of time, after the labor.  This person is most commonly the woman's spouse but can also be a family member, friend, or doula.  A doula is a paid woman who offers non-medical support and guidance during labor and delivery.       

       It is important the labor coach/partner fully understands what his role is and how he can assist the mother.  During the second or third trimester it is a good idea for the mother and her labor coach/partner to discuss and create a list of the coach/partner's responsibilities.  This will allow the mother to give some thought to how she envisions her coach/partner assisting her and gives the labor coach/partner a point of reference he can bring into the delivery room.       

       Some sample responsibilities are provided below as a starting point for the mother and her coach/partner to consider.

   

  Sample Labor Coach/Partner Responsibilities
           A labor coach/partner has many responsibilities prior to childbirth, including:
  • Attending childbirth education classes with the mother
  • Researching and discussing labor options prior to the delivery, such as the use of medication
  • Assisting the mother when she writes her birth plan
       

       A labor coach/partner has many responsibilities during childbirth, including:
  • Being physically and mentally present at all times
  • Keeping the mother focused on her breathing
  • Massaging the mother as she dictates
  • Offering water periodically
  • Providing various birthing-position suggestions, especially when the labor seems to stagnate
  • Providing direct pressure on the mother's lower back to relieve back labor
  • Providing physical support, such as holding the mother
  • Providing oral support, such as encouraging the mother when her energy fades
  • Assisting with decision making in case questions or complications develop
  • Staying calm so that the mother can ideally relax between contractions
  • Being patient and flexible

       Keep in mind that while a labor coach/partner has many responsibilities throughout this process, if nothing seems to be working or you are unable to make the mother happy, try not to take it personally!       

       A labor coach/partner has many responsibilities after childbirth, including:
  • Helping the mother get settled into her room after the birth
  • Making birth announcement calls to family and friends

   


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